Thursday, March 22, 2012

What's Next?

     Don has completed most of the testing for his major organs this week in preparation for the stem cell transplant.  Also, he had about 4 days this week with very little pain! 
     We have tentative dates for both the stem cell collection and the stem cell transplant.  If all continues to go well, he will begin receiving shots on April 13th at home that will stimulate his system to produce more stem cells. Then he will go into University Hospital on April 16th and will be in for 3 to 5 days as they collect his stem cells.  They need 10 million stem cells per kilo of his weight, so that is a lot!  Beginning on Monday, they will place a "port" in his chest, which will be in for quite a long time, even after the transplant.  Tuesday and Wednesday they will collect stem cells, a process which will take about 5 hours a day.  At the end of Wednesday, if they have collected enough, they will let him come home.  If they still need more, he will stay one or possibly 2 more days.  They are going to try to collect enough for 2 transplants in case he needs another one in the future. His stem cells will be frozen until needed.
     He will have approximately 2 weeks off after that, then enter the hospital for the stem cell transplant on May 7th.  He will be in the hospital anywhere from 3 to 5 weeks. 
On May 8th he will receive the most toxic chemo so far, and he will most likely suffer all of the negative side effects - hair loss, nausea, etc.  But they have assured us they are prepared for all of these and will take care of him.  The actual transplant will take place on May 9th.  It is kind of anticlimactic as the stem cells are simply given to him through the port and it only takes about 45 minutes. The second full week of his stay will be the hard week, as that is when all of the negative side effects will hit.  
      Once they have determined he is doing well enough, perhaps after the second full week, he will be released from the hospital and moved over to Hope Lodge where he will stay until he is well enough to come home.
     We feel this sort of "looming" over us, and I think we both just want it to be over with.  It is an amazing miracle, what stem cells can do, but it is not going to be a pleasant experience for Don.   He will most likely be off work all of June and perhaps July as he recovers.  They tell us fatigue will be a major factor in the recovery process.  They also said they have never had anyone go back to work in under 2 months.  I am actually looking forward to his recovery during the summer months as it will be the first summer we have had off together in many years!

Praises:
     For God's extraordinary intervention in our lives on a daily basis.
     Don had 4 really, really good days past week - the least amount of pain he has had in several months.  It was back with a vengeance on  Tuesday night, but we were thankful for these times when he is pretty much pain free.
     Other than the pain in his hips, Don continues to feel pretty good.  He is working at least 5 hours a day and is able to make it to a few meetings. 
     Friends and family have been so gracious in taking him to appointments and to work!  We thank God for every one of you!
     We are assured of God's continued presence and help in this trial as He continues to manifest Himself to us through people and circumstances (God moments).
     We are so blessed by the cards we receive and the many people who continue to pray for us.

Prayer Requests:
     That Don and I would face the long hospital stay and all that it entails physically, mentally and emotionally with courage,  peace and mutual strength.
     That the myriad of details and tests and procedures that need to be scheduled and completed will go smoothly.
    That times of being without pain would become the norm rather than the exception.
     That the swelling caused by the steroids would dissipate quickly.  

Thank you everyone for your continued interest in our journey; the way that you uphold us in your prayers and care for us in so many ways.
Love,
Don and Marcie
     
 

8 comments:

  1. You both are doing amazingly well, all things considered! You know you are in our constant prayers and we will all rejoice when we are on the other side of this! Sending love to you both!

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  2. Now I have 2 people sharing updates. Jackie and I just became FB friends, and my Uncle Ross and Aunt Charlotte Gunther are in your church. Ed and I are praying for strength, encouragement, and peace for both of you.

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  3. Am praying every day for you Don and your family. Don't worry about the port, it really is a blessing in disguise. I wore mine for a year. It sounds like you are in for a rough time but perhaps the best is yet to come.....sounds like you have a beautiful family, tons of support and even more your Faith in God. All will be well my blogger friend, God is watching over you.
    Sending big hugs and tons of prayers always...

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  4. For you both my love and prayers continue. Marcie, I am praying for you to have more strength than you have ever had. You are strong now but things like this seem to drain our strength. Don, for you I am praying for peace. A peace that only The Comforter can bring. Peace to come at just the right moments.

    I love both of you and am privileged to have you as long time friends.

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  5. I am part of the "praying band". I appreciate the updates and "specifics" you offer for prayer. I'm very thankful that God knows and is sovereign over all the stuff that falls between the "specifics". I'm also thankful that "we'll understand it all by and by". (Does that line from an old song show my age?)

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  6. Praying dear ones for your physical, mental and emotional courage and strength. May GOD's peace and grace fortify you daily. Love in the LAMB!

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  7. When answers aren't enough, there is Jesus.

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