Tuesday, May 8, 2012

A Bend in the Road

     The Myeloma cancer became active again since the last chemo treatment in March. The doctors feel it is necessary to do more chemo to get the cancer back into remission before they do the stem cell transplant.  It will have a much greater chance of succeeding.
     So, here is the plan, at least for the next month!  Don was admitted Monday morning to UH for 4 days of 24 hour round-the-clock drip chemo.  This regimen will be tougher than previous ones.  The doctors hope that this will put the cancer back into remission.  After this 4 days, he will have 3 weeks off.  Then, they will check "the numbers" and see where the cancer is - hopefully, in remission!  At that time they will plan again when the stem cell transplant will take place.  If the cancer is not inremission, they will do another 4 days on - 3 weeks off regimen of chemo.  So, the journey continues through the summer. Otherwise we begin the transplant at the beginning of July!
     This has reminded Don of a story he heard about Central Park in New York City and Chautauqua Conference Center in Western NY .  The architect of the roads in both parks, Frederick Law Olmsted designed them in such a way that one cannot see more than 1/4 of a mile ahead without continuing to walk along the road that is before you. So, we are going to continue on this road before us, around the bend, and keep going until we see the end.
     As you read Genesis 12:1-9 we see that Abram (Abraham) was simply told to leave where he was; his comfort zone.  He finally arrived in the land of Canaan and set up a camp and simply trusted God for his future.  You may be going through a period in your life where you have left the familiar but cannot see what is ahead.  Marcie and I are in that place right now.  Let's agree to trust the God of our past and the God of our future to abundantly meet all of the needs of our present. 
     
We have lots of specific prayer requests this week.  Please pray that...
  • This chemo will be effective, putting the cancer in remission and getting us back on track for the stem cell transplant.
  • That there would be little, if any, negative side effects from the chemo.
  • That there would not be any more blood clots.  (Likelihood of having another is increased since Don had the one in his neck.)
  • That he would not get an infection.
  • That he would get relief from the pain in his right hip and leg. 
Praise for:
  • All of the nursing staff who have been so wonderful!  Especially for a young lady who is a believer  and knows many of the same friends we do at CCC.
  • Good communication so far this week with medical personnel.  
  • A room being available for Marcie at Hope Lodge.
  • An excellent, qualified Spanish teacher to cover Marcie's classes this week. 
  • Continued support in innumerable ways from family and friends.
  • The stem cell collection has been successfully completed and will be ready for the transplant.
We'll keep you updated as we continue forward around this bend in the road.  Thanks for being on this journey with us.

Love,
Don and Marcie

PS - Approximately 11 hours of chemo completed and so far no side effects!  Keep praying!

11 comments:

  1. I have to admit I felt a little disapointment well up as we began this week that was supposed to be the transplant week and instead it is a week of more intense chemo for you Don. Knowing that nothing comes to us without first being sifted through God's own fingers, we trust that He knows the end from the beginning and that His timing is perfect. And so we continue to pray for the effectiveness of the treatments and for God do what the doctors are unable to. Love you.

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  2. Thanks for the update. Praying for you and training for the run.
    Love you.

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  3. Glory to God! We are believing and keeping you in our prayers always. By HIS stripes we WERE healed. Sue and Ray Pluck, Margaret Regallis, Jennifer Straka, Melissa Warner

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  4. One of the many things that I learned from a well-seasoned PhD from Emerge (Yes, Don, YOU) is that behind the scenes God is doing innumerable things in preparation for us. We do not see around that bend but God is there. We do not know what is going on outside of our own little sphere but God is there. He is preparing the way, others and ourselves for what lies ahead---we may not see it, but it is happening. His Truth never fails us. David and I will continues to pray for your requests and thank God for the praises.

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  5. Keeping all your requests in my prayers. I know the disappointment that comes with changes in treatment plans, but my experience has shown me that to God it wasn't a change, just an unrevealed part of the plan. I pray for you both as you continue to keep your eyes on Him and the journey you are on.

    Wanda

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  6. Prayers continue for you and your family today! Stopping over from your sister's blog.

    peace~elaine

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  7. Dr Lichi,

    Hate to read that you need more chemo. We are all praying for you and the family by name...even our 5 and 7 year old boys!

    Andrew and Merri Kever
    Tommy(7), Stanley (5), Molly (3), and Audrey (2)

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  8. Dr Lichi,
    I am in awe of the way you and Marcie handle the disappointment, I agree with the comments above, God has something wonderful behind the bend or bends in the road. Carol Dawson

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  9. mr. lichi, i don't know if you remember me, but i was in your 6th grade class at chcs (jennie kang- little asian girl who was shy, sensitive, and played the piano). i was just poking around on facebook tonight, and as i was browsing around, i googled your name to see what you were up to these days. imagine first, my heartache at reading about your battle w/cancer, and yet, also, my amazement that you are the same inspiring hope-invoking leader that you were so many years ago. i'd love to email you more and send you pix of my family (i have 2 little ones). when my kids ask me about my favorite teachers, you always head the list. always. you and your family will be in my prayers now...

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    1. WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU AND MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS
      dlichi@aol.com

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  10. Thanks for the update!!! Martin and I are continuing to pray for total healing......and for every need met in the meantime. Thanks for the specific list of prayer needs and for the specific list of Praise Reports. God is so good, all the time. We especially pray for a special download of His presence with extra joy and strength for you both. You are such a testimony of life and encouragement. So blessed to read the report from balloonboutique! Loved Jacquie's comments too. Right there with you. We pray for restoration of bones in Don's back and hip; for restoration of everything the cancer has stolen from you. Much love....Mollie and Martin....

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